Handbook for Parents 3
Co-parenting

2) Co-parenting

What is the purpose of co-parenting

Children will experience different kinds of unsettling feelings when their parents separate. Some of them might be too young to comprehend or acknowledge adult's problems, naively believe that as long as they stop fighting, or if mom stops asking dad for money, the problems will go away. In some cases, they tend to blame the parent who initiates the separation.

As a parent, you should understand your children's fear and anxiety of leaving either one of the parents. The thought of losing parent’s attention and love makes them feel insecure, which will make it harder for them to trust other people in the future.

If both parents can peacefully resolve and overcome their disputes, cooperate and take on their shares of parenting duties, ensure the children receive love and care from both parents, the children won’t feel being abandoned. This can set a good role model for the children and lessen the negative impact on your children's emotions, studies, as well as behaviors. This can also assist them to adjust to the changes of the family and help them to develop a positive self-image.