Handbook for Parents 1
Impact of separation and divorce

Treat yourself well

Acceptance and adjustment

In order to start a new chapter in life and lessen the fallout on the children, you have to accept the fact and try to establish a new partnership with your ex-partner in this separation/divorce. During the transformation, you will encounter changes in relationships and finances. For example, you will notice changes in the dynamics between you and your extended friends or family; there will also be changes in your financial status, which may require you to develop a new system to manage your finance. After acceptance and adjustment, you can slowly try and develop a new role and working relationship with the ex-partner, give a new definition to your life and re-evaluate your goals. Sometimes, your ex-partner might not be able to perform the father or mother role and share the responsibilities with you, but in the interests of your children, you need to step up and handle the situation with positivity and grace as under this family situation your children will particularly require your love and care.